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    February 27

    “失意”与“快意”人生

     

     

        世人因经历、处境、条件、地位的不同,对成功和失败的理解也不尽相同。逆境失利者往往过分抱怨客观的不济;顺境胜利者常常片面强调主观的作用。

        如何看待主观和客观,世人见仁见智,我以为主观和客观相辅相成,互为依存。

      蚯虽无爪牙之利,筋骨之强,而上食埃土,下饮黄泉;蟹虽有六跪二螯,非蛇穴无可寄托。这是两者主观作用的不同。

      顺流而下,"千里江陵一日还",速度何等之快;顶风逆水虽竭尽全力,日行也不过数里。这是两者客观条件的不同。

      古今中外,凡成事立业者,主观努力和客观因素二者缺一不可。

      屈原放逐赋《离骚》,司马迁受腐刑写《史记》,苏秦头悬梁、锥刺骨六国拜相,重耳漂流十九年终成霸业......他们倘不奋斗,早已粪土当年销声匿迹,怎能百代流芳名垂青史?

        然而,主观并不能超越客观的限制。诸葛亮六出祈山但未得寸土,终于病死五丈原,致后人有“出师未捷身先死,常使英雄泪满襟”的悲叹;岳武穆虽有“怒发冲冠、壮怀激烈”的豪情,仍不免朱仙镇罢师,惨死风波亭而遗恨千古;文天祥空有“上马击狂胡,挥笔作文章”的全才,草行露宿、辛苦辗转,终不能挽宋之覆灭,只能发出“人生自古谁无死,留取丹心照汗青”的感叹;崇祯帝夜宿文殿,节不食肉,饮免礼乐,在历代封建帝王中,可谓励精图治之君,也未能支撑明之社稷而吊死煤山......

        可见,客观条件对人的作用确是重要的。“东方不与周郎便,铜雀宫中锁二乔”,周瑜实在赖了天时地利。

        但是,客观毕竟是客观,它决不能替代主观的作用。秦二世接始皇伟业,四海归一,兵强马壮,因其昏庸无道,却将江山拱手相让与痞子刘邦;李自成北京称帝天下已基本平定,因其盲目骄傲,决策失误,而有九宫山残局;赵阔上有明君支持,下有雄兵劲旅,因其缺乏实践经验,只会纸上谈兵,终致长平血染......

               客观条件非人力所能改变,然我们可精心设计,奋发努力,力避主观的失误。当客观条件不利时,不能妄自菲薄,要变被动为主动;当客观条件有利时,不能妄自尊大,要扬长避短,乘势而上。

     

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    太行之雪wrote:
    世界尘微,心性旷达.
    Feb. 28
    No namewrote:
    唐河冯芝生云,一个人能否取得大成就,都离不开才、力、命三方面的配合。三者在一个人成功中所起到的作用,分三种情况:在学问方面,一个人的大成就,才的成分最大,力的成分次之,命的成分又次之;在事功方面,命的成分最大,才的成分次之,力的成分又次之;在修养方面,力的成分最大,才的成分次之,命的成分又次之。
    冯先生的这个观点,窃深以为是!!!!!
    Feb. 28
    wrote:
    的确  那些成功的人也不是从一开始就成功的
    逆境出人才阿 今日的一时不顺不会代表一生
    我相信只要努力就会有回报
    但是也需要绝对的正视自己
    未来始终是在自己手中的
    这边又开始下大雪了 老爸不放心就是不让我明天走
    所以 我又要在家里赖一天了
    呵呵^_^
     
    Feb. 27

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